5 and the king chargeth Joab, and Abishai, and Ittai, saying, 'Gently—for me, for the youth, for Absalom;' and all the people heard in the king's charging all the heads concerning Absalom. 6 And the people goeth out into the field to meet Israel, and the battle is in a forest of Ephraim; 7 and smitten there are the people of Israel before the servants of David, and the smiting there is great on that day—twenty thousand; 8 and the battle is there scattered over the face of all the land, and the forest multiplieth to devour among the people more than those whom the sword hath devoured in that day.
9 And Absalom meeteth before the servants of David, and Absalom is riding on the mule, and the mule cometh in under an entangled bough of the great oak, and his head taketh hold on the oak, and he is placed between the heavens and the earth, and the mule that 'is' under him hath passed on. 10 And one man seeth, and declareth to Joab, and saith, 'Lo, I saw Absalom hanged in an oak.' 11 And Joab saith to the man who is declaring 'it' to him, 'And lo, thou hast seen—and wherefore didst thou not smite him there to the earth—and on me to give to thee ten silverlings and one girdle?' 12 And the man saith unto Joab, 'Yea, though I am weighing on my hand a thousand silverlings, I do not put forth my hand unto the son of the king; for in our ears hath the king charged thee, and Abishai, and Ittai, saying, Observe ye who 'is' against the youth—against Absalom; 13 or I had done against my soul a vain thing, and no matter is hid from the king, and thou—thou dost station thyself over-against.'
Matthew Henry's Commentary on 2 Samuel 18:5-13
Commentary on 2 Samuel 18:1-8
(Read 2 Samuel 18:1-8)
How does David render good for evil! Absalom would have only David smitten; David would have only Absalom spared. This seems to be a resemblance of man's wickedness towards God, and God's mercy to man, of which it is hard to say which is most amazing. Now the Israelites see what it is to take counsel against the Lord and his anointed.
Commentary on 2 Samuel 18:9-18
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Let young people look upon Absalom, hanging on a tree, accursed, forsaken of heaven and earth; there let them read the Lord's abhorrence of rebellion against parents. Nothing can preserve men from misery and contempt, but heavenly wisdom and the grace of God.