10 Don’t forsake your friend and your father’s friend.
Don’t go to your brother’s house in the day of your disaster:
better is a neighbor who is near than a distant brother.

11 Be wise, my son,
and bring joy to my heart,
then I can answer my tormentor.

Matthew Henry's Commentary on Proverbs 27:10-11

Commentary on Proverbs 27:9-10

(Read Proverbs 27:9-10)

Depend not for relief upon a kinsman, merely for kindred's sake; apply to those who are at hand, and will help in need. But there is a Friend that sticketh closer than a brother, and let us place entire confidence in him.

Commentary on Proverbs 27:11

(Read Proverbs 27:11)

An affectionate parent urges his son to prudent conduct that should gladden his heart. The good conduct of Christians is the best answer to all who find fault with the gospel.