4 After this it came about that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek , whose name was Delilah . 5 The lords of the Philistines came up to her and said to her, " Entice him, and see where his great strength lies and how we may overpower him that we may bind him to afflict him. Then we will each give you eleven e hundred pieces of silver ." 6 So Delilah said to Samson , "Please tell me where your great strength is and how you may be bound to afflict you." 7 Samson said to her, "If they bind me with seven fresh cords that have not been dried , then I will become weak and be like any other man ." 8 Then the lords of the Philistines brought up to her seven fresh cords that had not been dried , and she bound him with them. 9 Now she had men lying in wait in an inner room . And she said to him, "The Philistines are upon you, Samson !" But he snapped the cords as a string of tow snaps when it touches fire . So his strength was not discovered . 10 Then Delilah said to Samson , "Behold , you have deceived me and told me lies ; now please tell me how you may be bound ." 11 He said to her, "If they bind me tightly with new ropes which have not been used , then I will become weak and be like any other man ." 12 So Delilah took new ropes and bound him with them and said to him, "The Philistines are upon you, Samson !" For the men were lying in wait in the inner room . But he snapped the ropes from his arms like a thread . 13 Then Delilah said to Samson , "Up to now you have deceived me and told me lies ; tell me how you may be bound ." And he said to her, "If you weave the seven locks of my hair with the web [and fasten it with a pin , then I will become weak and be like any other man ." 14 So while he slept , Delilah took the seven locks of his hair and wove them into the web ]. And she fastened it with the pin and said to him, "The Philistines are upon you, Samson !" But he awoke from his sleep and pulled out the pin of the loom and the web . 15 Then she said to him, " How can you say , 'I love you,' when your heart is not with me? You have deceived me these three times and have not told me where your great strength is." 16 It came about when she pressed him daily with her words and urged him, that his soul was annoyed to death . 17 So he told her all that was in his heart and said to her, "A razor has never come on my head , for I have been a Nazirite to God from my mother's womb . If I am shaved , then my strength will leave e me and I will become weak and be like any other man ."
18 When Delilah saw that he had told her all that was in his heart , she sent and called the lords of the Philistines , saying , "Come up once more , for he has told me all that is in his heart ." Then the lords of the Philistines came up to her and brought the money in their hands .
Matthew Henry's Commentary on Judges 16:4-18
Commentary on Judges 16:4-17
(Read Judges 16:4-17)
Samson had been more than once brought into mischief and danger by the love of women, yet he would not take warning, but is again taken in the same snare, and this third time is fatal. Licentiousness is one of the things that take away the heart. This is a deep pit into which many have fallen; but from which few have escaped, and those by a miracle of mercy, with the loss of reputation and usefulness, of almost all, except their souls. The anguish of the suffering is ten thousand times greater than all the pleasures of the sin.
Commentary on Judges 16:18-21
(Read Judges 16:18-21)
See the fatal effects of false security. Satan ruins men by flattering them into a good opinion of their own safety, and so bringing them to mind nothing, and fear nothing; and then he robs them of their strength and honour, and leads them captive at his will. When we sleep our spiritual enemies do not. Samson's eyes were the inlets of his sin, verse 1, and now his punishment began there. Now the Philistines blinded him, he had time to remember how his own lust had before blinded him. The best way to preserve the eyes, is, to turn them away from beholding vanity. Take warning by his fall, carefully to watch against all fleshly lusts; for all our glory is gone, and our defence departed from us, when our separation to God, as spiritual Nazarites, is profaned.