6 So Amnon lay down and pretended to be ill ; when the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king , "Please let my sister Tamar come and make me a couple of cakes in my sight , that I may eat from her hand ." 7 Then David sent to the house for Tamar , saying , "Go now to your brother Amnon's house , and prepare food for him." 8 So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house , and he was lying down . And she took dough , kneaded it, made cakes in his sight , and baked the cakes . 9 She took the pan and dished them out before him, but he refused to eat . And Amnon said , " Have everyone e go out from me." So everyone e went out from him. 10 Then Amnon said to Tamar , "Bring the food into the bedroom , that I may eat from your hand ." So Tamar took the cakes which she had made and brought them into the bedroom to her brother Amnon . 11 When she brought them to him to eat , he took hold of her and said to her, "Come , lie with me, my sister ." 12 But she answered him, "No , my brother , do not violate me, for such a thing is not done in Israel ; do not do this disgraceful thing ! 13 "As for me, where could I get rid of my reproach ? And as for you, you will be like one of the fools in Israel . Now therefore, please speak to the king , for he will not withhold me from you." 14 However, he would not listen to her; since he was stronger than she, he violated her and lay with her. 15 Then Amnon hated her with a very great hatred ; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. And Amnon said to her, "Get up, go away!" 16 But she said to him, "No , because this wrong in sending me away is greater than the other that you have done to me!" Yet he would not listen to her. 17 Then he called his young man who attended him and said , "Now throw this woman out of my presence, and lock the door behind her." 18 Now she had on a long-sleeved garment ; for in this manner the virgin daughters of the king dressed themselves in robes . Then his attendant took her out and locked the door behind her. 19 Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her long-sleeved garment which was on her; and she put her hand on her head and went away, crying aloud as she went .
20 Then Absalom her brother said to her, "Has Amnon your brother been with you? But now keep silent , my sister , he is your brother ; do not take this matter to heart ." So Tamar remained and was desolate in her brother Absalom's house .
21 Now when King David heard of all these matters , he was very angry . 22 But Absalom did not speak to Amnon either good or bad ; for Absalom hated Amnon because e e he had violated his sister Tamar . 23 Now it came about after two full years that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal-hazor , which is near Ephraim , and Absalom invited all the king's sons . 24 Absalom came to the king and said , "Behold now , your servant has sheepshearers ; please let the king and his servants go with your servant ." 25 But the king said to Absalom , "No , my son , we should not all go , for we will be burdensome to you." Although he urged him, he would not go , but blessed him. 26 Then Absalom said , "If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us." And the king said to him, "Why should he go with you?" 27 But when Absalom urged him, he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him.
Matthew Henry's Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:6-27
Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:1-20
(Read 2 Samuel 13:1-20)
From henceforward David was followed with one trouble after another. Adultery and murder were David's sins, the like sins among his children were the beginnings of his punishment: he was too indulgent to his children. Thus David might trace the sins of his children to his own misconduct, which must have made the anguish of the chastisement worse. Let no one ever expect good treatment from those who are capable of attempting their seduction; but it is better to suffer the greatest wrong than to commit the least sin.
Commentary on 2 Samuel 13:21-29
(Read 2 Samuel 13:21-29)
Observe the aggravations of Absalom's sin: he would have Ammon slain, when least fit to go out of the world. He engaged his servants in the guilt. Those servants are ill-taught who obey wicked masters, against God's commands. Indulged children always prove crosses to godly parents, whose foolish love leads them to neglect their duty to God.