3 not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock.
3 not domineering over those in your charge, but being examples to the flock.
3 Not bossily telling others what to do, but tenderly showing them the way.
3 nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock;
3 Don't lord it over the people assigned to your care, but lead them by your own good example.
Matthew Henry's Commentary on 1 Peter 5:3
Commentary on 1 Peter 5:1-4
(Read 1 Peter 5:1-4)
The apostle Peter does not command, but exhorts. He does not claim power to rule over all pastors and churches. It was the peculiar honour of Peter and a few more, to be witnesses of Christ's sufferings; but it is the privilege of all true Christians to partake of the glory that shall be revealed. These poor, dispersed, suffering Christians, were the flock of God, redeemed to God by the great Shepherd, living in holy love and communion, according to the will of God. They are also dignified with the title of God's heritage or clergy; his peculiar lot, chosen for his own people, to enjoy his special favour, and to do him special service. Christ is the chief Shepherd of the whole flock and heritage of God. And all faithful ministers will receive a crown of unfading glory, infinitely better and more honourable than all the authority, wealth, and pleasure of the world.