I grew up in a day and age when people had some fear and trembling about therapists. They still called them “shrinks” in the movies, and well-meaning Christians would say things like, “We don’t need counselors when we have the Great Counselor, God.” There was a strange aversion and unfortunate stigma when it came to our mental health. I always wanted to yell, “Then you must not need doctors or teachers or leaders since you have the Great Healer, the Great Teacher, the Perfect Leader in God.” Thank goodness times are changing and therapy is more acceptable, socially.
It’s a big mistake and deeply harmful, honestly, to believe or teach that God doesn’t work through trained professionals in the mental health field. God does! All along, God has always partnered with people, (think about Moses, Mary, Paul, Lydia, the disciples of Jesus, and not to mention, so many followers of God throughout history), to bring healing and hope to the world. But even today, in 2024, we can still be confused about pursuing and prioritizing our own mental health. What does the Bible say about counseling?
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Interestingly, the Old Testament alone has almost 90 references to counsel - meaning advice, aid, or giving purpose. Proverb 15:22 says,
“Without counsel, plans fail, but with many advisers, they succeed.”
Because God loves all the parts of us, we know that He cares about our mental health. This Mental Health Awareness Month, if you find yourself struggling with wholeness, anxiety, depression, or any type of mental health issue, there is no shame before God. He has given us the gift of trusted therapists and doctors to help guide us toward healing – and God wants us to thrive and know his wholeness.
After losing my best friend to breast cancer over a year ago, I returned to a therapist for the first time in a few years. I am a pastor. I’ve been in therapy before. You’d think I could do this on my own. But because my grief, fear, sadness, and anxiety were really overwhelming, and because I know God wants me to honor my loss and sadness, while still being able to love my family and my church community....well, for me, calling my therapist was a step towards greater freedom and health.
If you are struggling, here are a few steps you might consider:
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When I pray about mental health, I like to begin with Psalm 126. Psalm 126 is a song of Ascent, which means it was prayed and sung by the community of God-fearing pilgrims as they ascended the hill to Jerusalem.
As we enter the month of May and honor Mental Health Awareness month, let this pilgrim prayer become our own:
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