If anyone knows anything about me, they know that I love food.
And if I didn’t grow up with a biblical background, I would probably assume the phrase, “Eat, Drink, and Be Merry” had positive connotations. And originally it did (see below). Probably because the phrase, in our culture, isn’t paired with the final part of the verses such as Isaiah 22:13, Ecclesiastes 8:15, 1 Corinthians 15:32, and Luke 12:19) “for tomorrow we die.”
But then again, even if we do include that latter half, our YOLO (you only live once) culture seems to have turned a positive spin on this phrase. Now our culture takes this to mean, “Live it up, because this life is the only one we have.”
Some have gone as far as to say, Solomon promotes a hedonistic lifestyle in Ecclesiastes 8. Why does this phrase have a positive connotation now? How do we respond to the concept of living it up and why does this matter?
Let’s dive into these questions!
The Historical Background of 'Eat, Drink, and Be Merry'
One of the earliest mentions of "eat, drink, and be merry" comes from the book of Ecclesiastes. King Solomon, reflecting on life’s ups and downs, writes, “There is nothing better for people than to eat, drink, and enjoy their work” (Ecclesiastes 8:15, NLT). Here, he’s talking about finding joy in the simple blessings of life, even amid its uncertainties. Solomon knew that life can be challenging and unpredictable, yet he reminds us to savor God’s everyday gifts.
Through the depressed lens of the meaningless nature of folly and dizziness of our world, that the speaker encourages us to eat, drink, and be merry. Wait a moment, that seems backwards. Doesn't the Bible tell us to be heaven-minded? Why would the speaker insist we go party it up? At first glance, that may seem to be what Solomon is insisting we do. But instead, a few verses prior, he condemns wickedness. So he doesn't advocate for meaningless hedonism here. But he also doesn't negate the fact we should enjoy the gifts God has given us, including food and drink. We should celebrate them and God's goodness for giving them.
Jesus also referenced this idea in a parable found in Luke 12. He tells the story of a wealthy man who, after a bountiful harvest, says, "Take life easy; eat, drink, and be merry" (Luke 12:19). But that very night, the man’s life ends, and his stored-up wealth is left behind. Jesus uses this story to remind us of life’s fleeting nature and to encourage us to store up treasures in heaven rather than focusing solely on earthly pleasures.
Nevertheless, history does pollute this phrase and perverts it into something else. One look at a Grecian Bacchanal (or the Roman variation, a Bacchanalia) confirms this. Although God has given to us so many wonderful things, we can abuse them. That's where YOLO and other variations of 'Eat, Drink, and Be Merry," twist the words of Scripture to become a very bad thing.
Beyond the Bible, the phrase echoes throughout ancient Greek philosophy, where people often pondered life’s shortness and the importance of enjoying it wisely. The Greek philosopher Epicurus, for example, emphasized the pursuit of happiness, but he advocated for simple pleasures, not indulgent living. His philosophy often gets summed up as “eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow we die.” Yet his focus was more on appreciating life’s small, daily blessings than chasing excess.
Why is This a Positive Mantras in Our Culture?
Although “eat, drink, and be merry” has been around for thousands of years, the concept of YOLO came about in the late 20th, early 21stcentury. We’ve only seen the acronym for about 25 years.
The phrase essentially allows for its user to make reckless decisions because “Why not? We’re only on this earth once!”
In a “treat yo’ self” and “do it if it makes you feel good and happy” culture, of course, this mantra would be well-received.
Solomon liked a lot of women. Unlike the TV series The Bachelor, Solomon decided he didn’t have to choose just one wife and ended up having 700 wives and 300 concubines. That’s right, 1,000 women in which he had sexual relations (1 Kings 11). He took YOLO to the extreme. Accumulated massive amounts of wealth, in turn, having a lavish lifestyle. And at the end of his life, did he pump his fist into the air and says, “Yeah! YOLO, no regrets!”
No. He realized the meaninglessness of the riches, the wives, the pleasures. Just before we get to the verse in chapter eight, he speaks on wickedness. Most of the time, when an "eat, drink, and be merry" sort of concept gets introduced into the Bible the speaker is often carrying a rebuke along with that mantra.
If we only live for now, and only live for ourselves, we’ve lost the meaning of life.
How Should Christians Approach the Concept of 'Eat, Drink, and Be Merry'?
With caution.
But wait, God has indeed given us one life on earth to bring others to Him. Shouldn’t we live like we’re going to die, and tell people that they only have one life to get right with God? Although yes, we should spread the gospel and do so with zeal, we do need to recognize what YOLO in secular culture stands for.
There’s a sort of despair wrapped around the phrase. If only I checked off that last item on my bucket list. If only I got to visit this one country, etc. It seems this concept is also full of regret, impulsivity, and recklessness.
When we assert "eat, drink, and be merrt", we forget about the promise of eternal life. Also, that God has a plan for our lives and wants us to exercise good stewardship and self-control. If we live reckless lives, we run the risk of not reaching people with the gospel because our dangerous choices lead to mortal peril. For us today, this phrase can be a gentle reminder to focus on what truly matters. God gives us good gifts—family, friends, community, and moments of laughter and celebration. These are treasures we can enjoy as a way of honoring the Giver. But it also calls us to keep a heavenly perspective, knowing that life on earth is temporary.
No Christian grows up in a vacuum. Even though we regularly engage with Scripture, it’s easy for cultural ideals and assertions to find their way into our Christianity. We need to be careful to identify what promotions of a secular lifestyle have sneaked into our core beliefs.
Furthermore, we need to rest in the fact that God has a wonderful plan for our lives. We may not check every box off of our bucket list, but that doesn’t mean we need to act on impulse or always treat ourselves because we only get one life here on earth.
We have no idea about the splendor of heaven or the eternal life that awaits us. But I have a strong feeling that when we get there, those items on our bucket list will pale in comparison.
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