How to Accept What You Can't Change

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Updated Aug 20, 2024

In life, it's common to obsess over things that are beyond our control, whether it's past mistakes or the actions of others. King Solomon, in Ecclesiastes, highlights the futility of trying to change what cannot be changed, emphasizing that some things are simply unalterable. The past, for example, cannot be undone, and while making amends is important, dwelling on past decisions only leads to unnecessary guilt. Similarly, trying to change others is often a fruitless endeavor, as people will only change when they are ready. The key to peace and contentment lies in focusing on what can be changed and accepting what cannot.

Part 1: What Is the Key to a Meaningful Life?
Part 2: Finding Meaning in Life’s Monotony
Part 3: What Are We Searching for on Social Media?
Part 4: The Surprising Power of Old Truths in Today’s Word
Part 5: How to Accept What You Can’t Change
Part 6: How to Find Peace in a World Obsessed with Information

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Joël Malm is the founder of Summit Leaders where he uses outdoor adventure and leadership coaching to help people find their calling and pursue a vision for their lives. His expeditions have taken him around the world to places like Mt. Kilimanjaro, Grand Canyon, and Machu Picchu. He has traveled in over seventy countries on six continents and speaks three languages. He holds a B.A. in Political Science and an M.S. in Counseling.
He speaks at churches, conferences, and corporate events around the country and is the author of seven books, including Vision Map (Moody Press), Connecting the Dots, and Keep It Light. (Salem/Regnery) He and his wife Emily and daughter Elise live in Texas.
Find out more at: http://joelmalm.com

How to Accept What You Can't Change

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