If you are a believer in Jesus Christ, and yet your closest friends are not, it's very likely that your spiritual growth will be hindered, if not stymied altogether. In 1 Corinthians 15:33 we're told that "bad company corrupts good morals." That makes sense when you consider that unbelievers
It is absolutely crucial that you pursue making friends with people who are actively following Christ.
Beware of "Back-Row" Christians
What about friends who say they love Christ, yet their actions are just the opposite? Isn't it possible that a person can be a Christian but just not live it out very well? It is possible, and unfortunately, it happens all the time. Beware of a friendship that doesn't easily center on Christ. ...
How to Be Godly Friend
Perhaps the best way to find godly friends is to work hard at being a godly friend yourself. Here are some ideas for how to sustain friendships that are pleasing to the Lord.
Don't let wrong friendships hinder your new life in Christ. Choose your closest friends carefully. Make sure they are leading you toward Jesus Christ, not away from Him.
Excerpted by permission from TruthQuest Survival Guide: The Quest Begins!, copyright 2002 by Steve Keels. All rights reserved. Published by Broadman & Holman Publishers, Nashville, Tenn., www.lifeway.com, 1-800-448-8032.
Steve Keels is the general editor of the TruthQuest Bible and a pastor of student ministries. He has worked with young people at Good Shepherd Community Church in Oregon since 1978. His current ministry includes a combined weekly attendance of 700 students. Dan Vorm graduated from Moody Bible Institute in 1985 and Western Seminary in 1987. Having served as a missionary to Greece for a number of years, he is currently pastor of local outreach at Good Shepherd Community Church.
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